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Wednesday, December 14, 2011

Christmas Pie


In the late 80's, after my parents moved to Maryland, my family began to make yearly visits to Virginia for the Thanksgiving and Christmas holidays. Travel had become difficult for my grandparents, so we made the trip down to be together at the holiday. The drive from our home to theirs was only about 2 ½ hours [in good traffic].
On Christmas morning, we’d leave the house about 10 a.m. to get to Virginia at lunchtime. We had a typical-traditional family gathering, after which the women would clean the kitchen [several years into this practice, we wised up and began eating on paper plates], then we’d open Christmas presents and visit a bit, before we’d get back into the car and drive home. It made for a long day – worth the effort but tiring nonetheless.
We didn’t just drive down to have lunch. We took things down to add to the food table. My contribution in 1989 was the Christmas pie, also called a Japanese Fruit Pie. For anyone who has never had it, Christmas pie has the consistency of a pecan pie with added goodies: coconut and golden raisins. One year, I added a cup of chocolate chip morsels. It’s a dessert that doesn’t require a huge slice. A little of this sweet treat goes a LONG way because it is just that – sweet. My grandmother loved it! I will never forget how much she loved it. She went back for a second sliver. It was a big deal.
"Oh, Dahlin’!" she said in her soft, genteel southern voice. "This is really a good pie!"
High praise from a grade A, blue ribbon, smack your lips good cook like my grandmother.
I remember how much her words meant to me. They brought a little tear to my eyes because, well, whenever you get praise from someone who is a master at something, it means a lot to know that you did something that merited praise.
"Thank you, Nannie."
"I think I’d like to have that recipe," she said.
It was a WOW moment for me – MY grandmother asking ME for a recipe. It was a first.
I wrote it out when we got home that night and put it in the mail to her the following day. It gave me a special thrill when she put that recipe in her churches cookbook one year. It let me know just how good she truly thought that pie was, because a woman doesn’t put a recipe in her churches cookbook that isn’t exceptional in her book. Trust me on that.
It’s is a good pie and easy to make, but it doesn’t taste like it’s easy.
I thought I’d include it as part of my blog, because I’ve been thinking a lot about Christmases past the last few days. This memory is truly a warm-fuzzy one for me: the day that Martha Jane asked Martha Jhill for a recipe. I hope you’ll enjoy it as much as she did.


Christmas Pie:
1 (9 inch) un-baked pie shell
2 eggs, beaten
1/3 cup butter, melted
3/4 c white sugar if you like it sweeter, add 1/4 c more
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
1 tablespoon distilled white vinegar
½ cup chopped pecans
½ cup shredded coconut
½ cup golden raisins
 
Preheat oven to 350 degrees F.

In a medium mixing bowl combine eggs, butter, sugar, vanilla extract, and vinegar. Beat until smooth. Stir in pecans, coconut, and raisins. Pour mixture into pastry shell.

Bake in preheated oven for 40 minutes. Cool before serving. Serve with vanilla ice-cream.

Note: I bake my pie shell for about five minutes before I put the mixture in the bottom, so the crust isn’t soggy. Put foil around the edges. Also, if you want to try the chocolate chip morsel variation, add a cup at the point when you stir in the pecans, coconut and raisins. Top with whipped cream or go for broke and add a scoop of vanilla ice-cream. Enjoy!

Tuesday, December 13, 2011

Yes, Virginia...

One of my favorite holiday readings is the letter that Virginia O’Hanlon wrote to the editor of the now defunct New York newspaper, The Sun. Her letter sought clarification and confirmation about the existence of Santa Claus. The original editorial was titled, Is There a Santa Claus. Francis P. Church published his response to Virginia on September 21st, 1897 in which he addressed her question and concerns. That editorial has become and remains to this day THE most reprinted English language editorial in history. I’ve posted it here for your enjoyment. Have a day filled with wonder and blessings!

http://youtu.be/TgNSX5YzDSs [Jingle Bells/Barbra Streisand]
http://youtu.be/MR4Ik4RflVU [Winter Wonderland/Elvis]
 



Dear Editor,
I am eight years old. Some of my little friends say there is no Santa Claus. Papa says "If you see it in the Sun it's so." Please tell me the truth, is there a Santa Claus?

Virginia O'Hanlon.
115 W.95th St

Reply:
VIRGINIA, your little friends are wrong. They have been affected by the skepticism of a skeptical age. They do not believe except what they see. They think that nothing can be which is not comprehensible by their little minds. All minds, Virginia, whether they be men's or children's, are little. In this great universe of ours man is a mere insect, an ant, in his intellect, as compared with the boundless world about him, as measured by the intelligence capable of grasping the whole of truth and knowledge.
Yes, VIRGINIA, there is a Santa Claus! He exists as certainly as love and generosity and devotion exist, and you know that they abound and give to your life its highest beauty and joy. Alas! how dreary would be the world if there were no Santa Claus. It would be as dreary as if there were no VIRGINIAS. There would be no childlike faith then, no poetry, no romance to make tolerable this existence. We should have no enjoyment, except in sense and sight. The eternal light with which childhood fills the world would be extinguished.
Not believe in Santa Claus! You might as well not believe in fairies! You might get your papa to hire men to watch in all the chimneys on Christmas Eve to catch Santa Claus, but even if they did not see Santa Claus coming down, what would that prove? Nobody sees Santa Claus, but that is no sign that there is no Santa Claus. The most real things in the world are those that neither children nor men can see. Did you ever see fairies dancing on the lawn? Of course not, but that's no proof that they are not there. Nobody can conceive or imagine all the wonders there are unseen and unseeable in the world.
You may tear apart the baby's rattle and see what makes the noise inside, but there is a veil covering the unseen world which not the strongest man, nor even the united strength of all the strongest men who ever lived, could tear apart. Only faith, fancy, poetry, love, romance, can push aside that curtain and view and picture the supernal beauty and glory beyond. Is it all real? Ah, VIRGINIA, in all this world there is nothing else real and abiding.
No Santa Claus! Thank GOD! he lives, and he lives forever. A thousand years from now, Virginia, nay, ten times ten thousand years from now, he will continue to make glad the heart of childhood.

Sunday, December 11, 2011

Here We Come a Caroling...

Blessed is the season which engages the whole world in a conspiracy of love."
                                      ~ Hamilton Wright Mabie




There is no story or personal reflections to this post. It is simply a post of feel good and easy listening. I wanted to put together a compilation of the songs that I love and enjoy during this season. There are a few missing songs - perhaps, for another year. I hope you’ll spend a little time here, at your leisure, and share these songs with me. Get a cup of tea, coffee or cocoa and a plate of Christmas cookies, turn on your tree lights, sit back and relax. The season is truly upon us now. I wish you the happiest of holidays and a joyous listening experience...

NOTE: To facilitate listening: click on the blue link; listen to the song then hit your back arrow on your computer which will bring you back to the blog entry and click on the next blue link....and so forth, and so on....

http://youtu.be/sqXwVH6A7so [Ding Dong Merrily on High/Roger Whittaker]
http://youtu.be/O3wujkozv9E [A Baby Changes Everything/Faith Hill]
http://youtu.be/BM9Wg9PiviM [We Need A Little Christmas Now/Percy Faith Orchestra]
http://youtu.be/nZ19mW-TMRk [Believe from Polar Express/Josh Groban]
http://youtu.be/73UqDX_quk0 [It’s the Most Wonderful Time of the Year/Andy Williams]
http://youtu.be/stEjTFMb940 [Silver Bells/Jim Reeves]
http://youtu.be/eAw-9npi3Z4 [Let It Snow/Rosemary Clooney]
http://youtu.be/uGzEQRsDtPg [I Heard the Bells On Christmas Day/Eddy Arnold]
http://youtu.be/2JRvOnJH7Vw [The Christmas Song/Nat King Cole & Frank Sinatra]
http://youtu.be/4aoFp0hfqko [Do You See What I See/Linda Eder]
http://youtu.be/ESHZbPiJxJ0 [Sleigh Ride/Instrumental]
http://youtu.be/g7sYCoIqeqI [Christmas Waltz/The Carpenters]
http://youtu.be/Y-ImRQuFSXo [We Three Kings/Carol of the Bells/Kenny G]
http://youtu.be/YHI5lqk3NMU [Santa Baby/Eartha Kitt]
http://youtu.be/8T3--oD1f0Q [Holly Jolly Christmas/Burl Ives]
http://youtu.be/XzH28CUgM2A [Silent Night/Linda Eder]
http://youtu.be/XeShHAZk3to [Please Come Home for Christmas/The Eagles]
http://youtu.be/yHDgzQ6eQw4 [There’s No Place Like Home For the Holidays/Perry Como]
http://youtu.be/nmGSHZYZ74c [Where Are You Christmas/Faith Hill]
http://youtu.be/KxNtRHwdkAg [The Little Drummer Boy/David Bowie & Bing Crosby]
http://youtu.be/t1--x1xORt8 [The Prayer/Celine Dion & Andrea Bocelli]
http://youtu.be/z8Vfp48laS8 [Happy Christmas~War Is Over/John Lennon & Yoko Ono]
http://youtu.be/nsUSfk8EDfg [The Friendly Beasts/Garth Brooks & Friends]
http://youtu.be/4cP26ndrmtg [Christmas Canon - Trans-Siberian Orchestra]
http://youtu.be/JvGhznjbuJw [It’s Beginning to Look A Lot Like Christmas/Johhny Mathis]
http://youtu.be/DGN1ES4nsLQ [Ave Maria/Sarah Brightman]
http://youtu.be/vfQ3WbIfxtY [You’ll Never Walk Alone/Michael Junior]
http://youtu.be/ZduAV868A5Y [White Christmas/Bing Crosby]
http://youtu.be/usfiAsWR4qU [The Messiah/Handel *Please Stand When Listening to This 1]
http://youtu.be/Q9TTOPG4cV0 [Celebrate Me Home/Kenny Loggins]
http://youtu.be/THg8Yes6zec [Angels We Have Heard On High/Andea Bocelli]
http://youtu.be/MIFH0TUWcBA [O Holy Night/Josh Groban]
http://youtu.be/Yz7FYPQp7v0 [Happy Holidays/Andy Williams]
http://youtu.be/xPvsLIlroyY [O Christmas Tree/Vince Guaraldi Trio]
http://youtu.be/c5CaLcAA7ek [When My Heart Finds Christmas/Harry Connick, Jr.]
http://youtu.be/GRS_lylu90s  [We Wish You a Merry Christmas & A Happy New Year]

Three Bonus Tracks for New Year’s:

http://youtu.be/G1YbfCQmr4o [What Are You Doing New Year’s Eve/Nancy Wilson]
http://youtu.be/OYIWeow6W14 [Same Auld/Old Lang Syne/Dan Fogelberg]
http://youtu.be/uwggIWHjIjU [Millennium Mix 2010/Kenny G]

Merry Christmas, Everybody, & God Bless Us Everyone....
I wish you Peace, Health, Happiness and Love in the New Year...
Always love...
Blessings!
 
 

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

I Said the Dove


"I see my role as offering support...to provide some light along the way." ~Leo Buscaglia

http://youtu.be/nsUSfk8EDfg [The Friendly Beasts]

This time of year is filled with pageantry and programs as the various stories and aspects of the holiday season come into play: The Nutcracker, A Christmas Carol, The Christmas Story, Altoona Christmas, and concerts galore. When I was a little girl, the show to see in our house was the Christmas Story that the children’s choir of Englewood Christian Church put on for our congregation. It was a BIG deal.
My sister and I were in the choir; she is two years older than I am. Anxiously, we waited for Mrs. Forbes to pick the roles for the production of The Friendly Beasts coupled with other Christmas songs that we were doing that year. The coveted roles for the mini-play were the roles of Mary and Joseph. I don’t remember who got the roles of Joseph, the donkey, the cow, the sheep, or the camel. I only remember who got the role of Mary and the dove. For a moment in time, it wasn’t a pretty sight around our house.
My sister, Pam, got the role of Mary. I was called upon to play the dove. I wailed. And, in case I’d not wailed loudly enough the first time, I wailed some more the longer I thought about it. I had wanted to be Mary, and I didn’t see why, just because my hair was blonde and my eyes were blue that I couldn’t be. [In my previous entry, I spoke about my father’s realization and understanding of "unfairness" at an early age. This was such a moment for me.]
My mother tried to console me. "Honey," she said gently. "You don’t look like Mary."
My brows came together, not convinced. "Who says?"
My mother knew me well enough to know that at times, I needed "showing" and not merely telling. She got her Bible and turned to the chapter of Luke. She found the page that had the artwork depiction of the holy birth. Sure enough, Mary’s hair was brown. She looked more like my sister than she did me.
I pursed my lips together, trying, even at a tender age to circumvent the standards of a given. In other words, just because someone says something is so, doesn’t always, necessarily, mean it is such. [Yes. I’ve always questioned things....call it being a Leo and the curious nature that comes along with being a "cat" or call it being trained in journalism and my curious nature in general. Curious natures question things.... I have one, and I do.]
"Why can’t we pull my hair back and put your chignon on top of it?"
For those of you who didn’t grow up in the 60's and early 70's, a chignon is a fancy french term used to describe a bun of hair that is the color of one’s regular hair and bobby pinned to the woman’s hair at the nape of her neck or a little higher. It was a fashion statement back when I was a child. My mother and her best friend had one. My mother’s hair was dark brown just like Mary’s and her chignon was that same color. Now, I don’t know if my mother laughed at that. I don’t recall her laughing, and I tend to think she didn’t because I was dead serious, and she didn’t laugh at me in situations like that, even if I had said something that was ludicrously funny. She probably bit her lip to keep herself from laughing in my presence. [I swear, I don’t know how parents do that – keep from laughing straight out – especially after having heard some of the things my friends’ kids say.]
Anyway, she gently, but firmly told me that Mrs. Forbes had made her decision, and she, meaning Mrs. Forbes, thought that Pam would be a better Mary.
Still, I didn’t understand how that could be so? "Why?" I demanded SOME reason beyond just that explanation. "Nobody gave me a chance to see if I could be a good Mary."
My mother didn’t have an answer nor argument for that. So, she did what I now know she did in situations like that, she steered me away from what situation had caused my pouty*ness and directed me to something I’d not thought of before.
"You know," she pointed out. "Mary doesn’t have a speaking part in this, but you, YOU, have a singing part. You have a solo."
The momentary spotlight of solo hadn’t dawned on me at that point.
"I don’t want to play a stupid dove!" I said, digging my feet in.
She pulled me into her lap, un-digging my feet. The conversation began with "Martha Jhill". It only began that way when she was upset-angry about something that I’d done, or surprised by something I’d said that she knew wasn’t true or she thought was riotously funny.
"Martha Jhill," she began to explain MY significance in the church play. "The dove is NOT stupid!" she said with conviction. "Do you know what the dove represents?"
I didn’t. But, I had a feeling it was important because of the way she’d asked it. I shook my head.
"The dove is the symbol of peace, the whole world over," she said. "When people see a dove, that’s what they think of: peace. It’s a very important thing."
It sounded good, but I wasn’t convinced. "But, I want to sit by the baby Jesus, and I want to be the pretty one who gets to be Mary."
My sister was a pretty child. She was breathtakingly pretty. People always referred to me as a "cute little girl". When you’re a "cute little girl", ALL you ever want to be, just for one moment, is that breathtakingly pretty one.
"Doves are pretty little birds," my mother replied. "They’re pure white," she noted. "Why, I bet Mrs. Forbes picked you to play the dove because of how pretty your hair is." [I was platinum blonde as a child. A natural. LOL]
My hair was pretty. I gave her that point in the discussion.
"You know what else?"
"No," I grumbled, then remembered myself. "Ma’am."
"You have a sweet singing voice," she told me. "And, out of ALL the animals in the play, the dove is the one who sang the baby Jesus to sleep. That’s a VERY important job! Mother’s normally sing their babies to sleep, but in this case, the dove is the one to do that."
My young brain processed this new and significant piece of information. "So, the dove is kinda like Mary."
"Yes," my mother agreed, after thinking about it for a minute. "I think she is."
"Can my dove’s name be Mary?"
Again, I don’t know if she laughed. I don’t recall hearing it, but I think I remember her biting her lip considering this point. I don’t think she thought it would hurt anything, and it would put an end to my unrest, displeasure and unjust feeling of treatment over the role selection. "I don’t see why you can’t be a dove named Mary."
I wish I’d been a fly on the wall when she’d explained that little development to both Pam and Mrs. Forbes. Neither one ever said a word to me about it. It wasn’t a significant battle to wage - that my dove would be called, Mary, if only by me and my mother.
So, I dutifully accepted the role of "Mary the dove". After all, I was the fair-haired child needed by my youth choir to play the role of a fair-feathered bird who sang the baby Jesus to sleep. Who was I to deny such a request?
Here’s the thing, once things got underway, I wouldn’t have traded roles with my sister if they had given me a week’s allowance. Pam, in the role of Mary, had to kneel beside the manger for a good 15-20 minutes. She had to practice that – kneeling with her arms and hands folded in a gesture of prayer [think Charlie’s Angels hand-pose from the 70's] It wasn’t easy. She had to stay perfectly still for the entire play. Have you ever knelt for that long – tried to stay still? It’s not an easy or comfortable thing to do.
I, on the other hand, got to walk up the small staircase and platform that had been constructed and attached to the back of the plyboard-made manger. I got to go up four stairs and stand in the center of things at the point of my solo until the end of the play. Me, in the center of things – singularly in the center of them. No one else got to do that!  It was special, and I'm all over special!  There was also a railing for me to hold onto as I stood there, looking like I was perched atop the manger. I had the best seat in the house, and, unlike my sister, I got to move my head about, side to side, like a bird would do, looking out over the audience. I played it to the hilt too. When the time came for my solo, and the spotlight shown solely on me, I smiled brightly and sang clearly:
"I said the dove, from the rafters high. I cooed him to sleep so he would not cry. We cooed him to sleep, my mate and I. I said the dove, from the rafters high."
I learned from that experience that ALL parts of something are important to make it work, for it to be a success. Being a supporting player is every bit as important as being the main one. Sometimes, being a supporting player is the best role of all. It was a good Christmas play. I remember the thunderous ovation we got from the audience.
I remember Mrs. Forbes calling each one of us out from the choir, who had been the main players of the play, onto the center of the stage for a special recognition. As the lights went up, I looked for my mother to see if I had done a good job. I saw her smile from ear to ear as she stood beaming with pride over the wonderful job that each of her daughters had done in the play of The Friendly Beasts. Her smile; her pride; her ovation was for both of us: Mary the mother and Mary the dove...

Wednesday, November 30, 2011

The Seven Candles of Christmas


http://youtu.be/WqFAQ2ODMZw [Go Light Your World]

A few years ago, a friend told me about a tradition of hers: the lighting of seven candles of Christmas in remembrance of and to signify the true meaning of the season. I’d never heard of it before, but I thought it was a lovely sentiment. Wow. Light a candle, and in essence, light up the world. There’s no story here - no memories to reflect upon. This post is merely a sharing of - passing on information regarding a holiday tradition that many around the world practice. I offer it here for consideration as something you might want to try this year; I tweaked it a bit with my own little spin. And, if you are so inclined, I hope you’ll not only light your candles but pass them on so that they may burn bright! Blessings One and All!!!!

Light the first candle for the one whose birth we celebrate on Christmas Day. May the fire and light from this candle shine brightest for all the world to see and feel the warmth of its glow.

Light the second in honor of the gift of God’s love. May the light from this candle touch every heart - those who believe - however you believe - and those who do not. Especially for the non-believers, may the light from this candle allow a dawning to occur within you, because we all need something to believe in.

Light the third candle in honor of your family–your children, for they are truly among your greatest treasures.

Light the fourth candle to honor the women and men in our armed forces - the standard-bearers of our liberties, who fight and sacrifice so much of themselves so that we may have the right to celebrate Christmas [or not] in accordance with our personal beliefs.

Light the fifth candle for your friends. Our friends are the family we create for ourselves. They are our self-made blessings. God gave us our families; we pick our friends. Therein, lies the perfect balance of light and love. As with our families, friends are among our greatest blessings.

Light the sixth candle for those less fortunate - the have nots - the forgotten ones, those who suffer: for those people who have lost their jobs; the homeless; the mentally ill who wander aimlessly through a society that does not understand them; for the mother and father who have no food to give their child - no money to purchase even a loaf of bread or a gallon of milk; for those children who go to bed hungry and disillusioned; for the abused who have lost all hope; for the chronically ill and lonely who know pain more than anything else in their lives yet daily persevere. May the glow from this candle guide our conscience and give us compassion as we remember them, and may it burn brightly for those who are existing in any of these predicaments, who need a guiding light to help them find their way out of their individual despair and onto the pathway to a truly glorious earthly life.

Light the seventh candle for those who are believers of goodness and grace: the optimists of the world. Let it burn to honor those who still have hope in a weary world and  who keep a positive attitude amidst a tempest-tossed storm of uncertainty regarding plans, future, and the direction of our nation and its people [as well as the world at large]. Let us remember those who continue to inspire and endure as true examples of God’s grace. May the light from their candles always burn with an indescribable brilliance, serving as a testament to the idea that "this too shall pass" if you believe with the hope of an assured heart that "better days lie ahead..." Let this candle shine brightly as a reminder to others that endless possibilities come to and for those who maintain a hopeful heart.


May the blessings of the season be with every one. Christmas is a time of pure celebration: celebrate the joy and love that come with giving; celebrate the good tidings we feel when we share our abundance with others; celebrate life for this is the season of reflection and love. May you, your family and friends find the peace that the light of these seven candles imparts on the world. May the seed that you sow of love, grace and happiness advance the light forward so that the light of the Seven Candles of Christmas will be magnified by all who see it each and every time someone sees them. Our greatest prayer en total as we celebrate the lighted candles is Peace on Earth. May you know it and may you pass it on. God Bless you and yours this holiday season with health, happiness and joyful appreciation for the gifts~messages that the seven candles impart to each one who partake in this experience. Now, Friends...take your candle or two or three and go light your world so that others may see your light, catch your flame and pass it on, until all the world is bright and beautiful with love, hope and peace’s illumination and see if we can maintain it NOT for just a season, but for always.... Amen.

Thursday, November 24, 2011

All My Blessings...

http://youtu.be/xBtKRKM3a9o My "Thanksgiving Blessings" video
*Please take a moment to watch the video...


 
"What we're really talking about is a wonderful day set aside on the fourth Thursday of November when no one diets. I mean, why else would they call it Thanksgiving?...

...Thanksgiving dinners take eighteen hours to prepare. They are consumed in twelve minutes. Half-times take twelve minutes. This is not coincidence." ~Erma Bombeck, 26 November 1981

Have you counted your blessings this week as we come upon Thanksgiving? I’ve counted mine, but I don’t simply wait for Thanksgiving day to do that. Although, I say an extra special prayer of Thanksgiving for all the blessings God has seen fit to enrich my life with. If I was sitting in Santa Claus’ lap, given my LONG list of blessings, I would definitely tell him that I was a GOOD girl! Here’s the thing about blessings: it’s not so much about having the best of every material possession out there. It’s about appreciating and valuing all the non-material treasures in your life: family, friends, a home, a full pantry, and two munchy little puppies. It doesn’t get any better than that!
I wish it was mandatory that people spent time with loved ones and reminisced. It’s more entertaining than any video game out there, and the laughter that comes with happy memories - not necessarily happy ones at the time, but ones that seem almost riotous now...is not something that you can put a price tag on. Wow, if you charged for that, I daresay we’d all be in that 2% of Americans who have more money than they’ll ever spend in five lifetimes. But, I digress...this isn’t about money or the lack thereof. This is about something much more important than money: love–grateful love and appreciation for all the people in our lives who put up with our moods, our grumps, our quirks, our faults and frailties and love us anyway, despite all those things.
There’s just something fun, for me, in sitting around with family and close friends and hearing old stories from everyone’s childhood. I’m familiar with my brother and sister’s stories. I was a participant in many of them, along with my some of my friends’ memories. It was my granddaddy and Daddy who could tell stories about growing up that had you holding your sides, while snickering and snorting with laughter. It’s an art - being a good story teller. It didn’t matter whether I knew the people in their stories either, because a good story teller can make you feel as if you know them. I like to think I learned that from both of them. I like to think that I’m a good story teller and that it doesn’t matter whether or not you know the main characters in the tale of my life. I hope that I describe them in a way where you feel like you do know them in some way and love hearing about them as much as I love sharing memories of them.
God blessed me with an amazing array of family and friends. There are some friends who were plunked down in my life straightaway - like placing a picture on a table. The "this one goes here" philosophy, I call it. Then, there are other friends who came, not from the divine one’s straight-away handing of them to me, but with the help of one of his bright lights.
Marie Osmond helped out with that regarding a special group of my friends. I’m sure everyone knows who Marie Osmond is. The Osmond family has been a staple of my life since I was old enough to say "one bad apple". I’d always watched Marie and Donny on television [Friday nights/8 pm] and I’d followed the Osmond brothers for years prior to that. Who my age didn’t dream of being Mrs. Donny Osmond? My sister led me to believe that Donny would never pick me over her! I didn’t listen. I figured as long as we were both living in dreamland, my dream was as real as hers and had about as much chance of coming true. Needless to say, Donny passed us both over for a lady name Debbie. I thought Pam and I were pretty close to the front of the line, but Debbie was obviously closer. He made a good choice because they’ve been married for over 30 years. Still, sometimes, my sister and I lovingly recall those days when being Mrs. Donny Osmond was a sight off in our horizon no matter how off-the-mark it was. More aptly defined: not close and no cigar. It happens...
With Marie, however, when I watched her, I knew that she was going to have a special impact on my life. Don’t ask me why, but I felt that long before I ever met her. Does that sound like a grand statement? Perhaps. Some people know at an early age that they were destined for greatness. [Oprah comes to mind with that thought.] Others of us know that great things will happen to us. That’s MY category! Marie led me to some very special friends: Linda, Kelli, Rebecca, Ken, Kristin, Judy, Linda, Paul, Bernay, Tammy, Lynne, Mary, Tanya...the list goes on and on. How do you thank somebody for gifts like these? I don’t know? I’ve expressed the appreciation to her before, and she gets it. We are that kind of blessing to her as she’s told us many times before. We’re doll collectors. I don’t collect so much anymore, [disability and the financial limitations that come along with such can limit a person’s spending abilities] but for a time it was all pink boxes and ooh-ahs.
My "Doll Friends" still provide the ooh-ah moments. They are a special group of people – the kind who learned to keep the wonder and magic of childhood alive in their hearts no matter their age. It’s a pure wonder moment to open a box and find a beautiful doll inside; to allow yourself the freedom to be a kid again and let yourself squeal and giggle with wild abandon! It’s a great feeling to be dazzled by something and know there are other people out there who are dazzled by those same things.
My wish for the world is that the childlike wonder that we had as children would never go away. I think it would be a wise idea if for a half hour every day, women and men played with dolls or bears or Tonika toys, Legos – whatever your pleasure – had tea parties. Turn off the computers, the phones, the mind and let yourself wander back to a time when playing was as easy as breathing. That’s the beautiful thing about Doll Collectors, Bear Collectors and toy collectors in general. They’ve not forgotten how to play or that it’s important to do it, no matter what your responsibilities. Play creates energy and energy flourishes when sparked. Trust me, as someone who can’t run around physically anymore, I know how important the ability to continue to play albeit in limited ways is. You don’t have to run around necessarily to play though. You can do it exuberantly sitting in a chair with a "feel good" in your hand like a doll or bear and let your mind and your giggles take you back to that special place of wonder, or as I like to call them: the Mrs. Beasley and Kitty Karry-all days.
I think we’d all be in a much better place mentally, spiritually, physically and emotionally if we did that: still took time to play. My Doll Friends know how to play. Lord! You’ve not been to a party until you’ve been to a gathering of doll lovers, and Marie Osmond knows how to throw a good party! I’ve been to three or four of her shindigs with my merry band of Doll Friends, and we can rock a house, I’ll tell you that much. Everything else that has happened there is like the Vegas motto: "it stays there!" It’s just understood.... And, in case you don’t truly believe that doll people can have the kind of wild, wacky fun that many classify that term as having, let me just say that our CNY delegation has a few of us on standby with bail money ready should they ever need to make that one phone call. And, we’d be there for them in a New York minute too if the call came in. Oh, I laugh at just the thought of them and some of their hijinx - all legal, mind you. I’ll stop there because I can hear all of their voices chiming in loudly right about now, reminding: "It stays here, Jhilly! Remember, it stays here!" I can keep a secret! Playtime with my brother’s blonde little toy filly with the chain and saddle is evidence of that!
Genie Francis led me to "S’More" very dear friends, and most of them will get that reference. Dee, Luci, Sus, Lori, Sue, AuntB, Tomi...that list goes on and on too. Blessings, every one. Genie, like Marie, is a sister-friend. She’s someone who I watched on tv as a kid and knew our lives would cross later on down the line. It was another example of that in-explainable "knowing". Genie’s gift to my life far outweighs all the joy she brought simply from entertaining me. She’s brought me, like Marie, to some of my dearest friends. Isn’t it amazing how God uses people and places to build bridges of love and friendship? I think so anyway. There again, I can never appropriately express the gratitude I feel toward Genie for being the conduit through which many of my dearest friends came.
Then, of course, there’s Terri – my oldest friend in the world. I’ve known her for 44 of my 48 years. She’s one of those kind of friends who, it doesn’t matter how long it’s been since we’ve spoken, when we do, time has stood still. We pick right up where we left off. She’s traveled the world-literally and done things in those adventures that I can only dream of but would be too chicken to undertake. Backpacking across Europe at 18 comes to mind. I’ve found, the older I get, the more I realize that God always gives us at least one friend through whom we can live vicariously. Terri is my vicarious friend! I’ve gotten to piggy back on her adventures through her retelling of them, and felt as if I was right there with her in some instances. She’s saved me a lot of travel expense, but the sights that her eyes have seen leave me envious at times – not in a covetous way but more along the lines of wishing that I’d have had more of a wanderlust spirit like she has. I appreciate passion, and Terri has always had a passion for it. It’s one of the things that I appreciate about her.
Then, there’s my A.B. who was put in my life so that my universe wouldn’t seem so, oft times, singularly chaotic, because we always jokingly said we shared parallel ones. She was also put in my life, I think, because God knew I’d needed an angel here on earth. That’s what she is to me: my earth angel. It’s also what drew us together – our love of angels. She is a friend who I don’t have to necessarily converse with to know what she’s thinking. Do you have a friend like this? We can both look at something, then at each other and our eyes take over the conversation. Those kind of laughs are the best – when people look at you and another person who are laughing but haven’t said a word and wonder what wonderfully funny thing it was that they missed? Some of my best laughter is shared with Karen. Some of my best times have featured her. One of my greatest blessings has her name written on it.
When I speak of angels, I can’t forget my true angel-friend, Sheri. She left us much too soon, but for the 38 years that she walked among us, I and her family give thanks. She was my Jr. High School best bud - the one I tried my dreams out on. I knew if I told her what I hoped to do with my life and what I wanted to be, that if she didn’t roll on the floor in hysterical laughter, that I might not have been too far off the mark. Sheri never laughed. Ten years ago, the Monday after Thanksgiving in 2001, my mother called to tell me that Sheri had been diagnosed with cancer, and they’d given her roughly four months to live. There have only been a few times in my life when all the air was literally sucked right out of me. That was one of those moments. It gave me pause. It was information that my mind didn’t know how to process or grasp. It suddenly put everything into perspective for me and made me realize what a precious commodity time is. I began to write to her weekly, reminding her of things that we had done as kids and things that she had said to me, because my mother had told me that she was trying to put together a journal for her daughter, who, at the time, was only four. Just four. God, my heart still breaks at the thought of THAT reality. Prayer takes on a desperate tone when you’re pleading for someone’s life. I had a lot of desperate prayer that year. I didn’t mind doing 10,000 knee bends for Sheri. Some things are worth that effort. The friend she had been to me...well, she was worth it.
I remember immediately sending her a teddy bear - one that I had gone and carefully hand- picked especially for her. I hugged it so tight - one of those "squeeze your eyes shut" hugs that contained all the love and positive energies I could muster, because I knew that she was in the fight for her life. When that time comes, a person needs all the positive reinforcements they can get. I told her that the teddy bear was my church’s symbol for God’s unconditional love for each of us, and that I wanted her to have a bear because I knew that sometimes in life, we all need a little something extra to hold onto and cry into, when we’re sad or scared. There’s something comforting in having something like that beside you when you’re having just such a moment. Her mother told me that she took that bear with her a few times to her chemo treatments. It made me feel good to know that I could do something that helped her during that time - made her feel not all better, but a little better as she traveled down that tough road. I also told Sheri that I believe in miracles, and told her to hang onto that thought because a miracle was out there for her. We had all hoped and prayed that the miracle would be a complete healing, but, sometimes, God’s idea of miracles and ours are different. Sheri was a beautiful flower, and God wanted her to decorate his garden. I can’t blame him for that. Beautiful flowers are young and vibrant. That’s what Sheri was. She lived eight months longer than originally given with her diagnosis, and therein was the miracle.
Her mother told me after she passed how much my letters had meant to her. I wrote her every week or 10 days, even if it was just a card that I signed with love attached. She appreciated my letters. She’d laugh and wonder how in the world I’d remembered those details from so long ago? Sheri would remember them too after I’d brought them back to the forefront of her mind in the vivid detail that I’m known for recalling. Then, it all came back to her too. Her mother said she marveled over my memory. I get that a lot. It makes me smile.
The first anniversary of her death, I remember getting a card from her mother. She had been going through a box of Sheri’s things and found a partially written letter that Sheri had written to me but not finished.  For whatever reason, she hadn't been able to throw it away.  Her mother sent it to me. What a gift. What a blessing it was to learn that, during that most difficult journey of her life, she considered me an extra special one. The amazing thing about Sheri’s illness is that it brought people together in prayer who had never met her. Yet, when I mentioned to my MDF family that I needed special prayers sent up on Sheri’s behalf and for her family as well, they joined hands with me and prayed for her and her family that entire year. The last week of her life, when my mother called and said the time was at hand, those friends held vigil with me for five solid days praying round the clock for her peace–peace of mind-peace from pain-peace for her family. It is amazing to me how blessings don’t just enrich our lives but strengthen them as well. I suppose Sheri has been heavy on my mind because she passed on November 22, 2002, and that date is during Thanksgiving week this year.   It doesn't matter if the anniversary comes Thanksgiving week or the one after.  I never forget her.  I never will...
I’ve mentioned before that I’m a big believer in signs. Well, I am. I met Mattie "J. T." Stepanek a year later on November 22nd. Oh, that young man was a love light - a true love light! I wrote about him in a separate blog entry - my third actually called "A Heartsong for Today". Mattie was a special blessing to this world – his message of love and peace coupled with his wisdom exemplified just how true a statement that is.
I shared Sheri’s story with him the day I met him, and he shared a few stories with me about his own losses, namely his brothers and sister. He spoke with an assurance and a comforting knowing that better things lie ahead in a place far grander than this. I have never forgotten that. When I count my blessings, I count that experience high on my list and Mattie as well, because it was, as I said to my husband when we left him, that I knew what it was to be in the presence of an angel. I had just experienced that with Mattie Stepanek.
Then, several years later I would receive a special blessing in my life tied again to the date November 22nd. It was the day when my doctor was born hm hm years ago. I don’t know how many of you appreciate your doctor. I adore mine! She has been a blessing in my life of super-duper proportions! When you begin to have "Tin Man" issues, like I have, and it’s not because I have no heart, rather I need an oil can to grease the cricky wheels of my challenged body to get me going most often than not, at this point. Given that fact, it’s a blessing to have a doctor who is right there ready, willing and able to re-fill said oil can when needed. It’s a blessing to have her admit that while I’m getting a little rusty in some of the old ball and joints, I still shine, for the most part, real pretty. She’s given me lots of scripts over the years, but that one is the most important. Another one is this: when I have moments of value-certainty, because I don’t always consider myself a gold or silver nugget at this point in my game, she’ll shake her head and, in essence, get this figurative message imparted to me: "Okay. So, you don’t feel like you’re gold today. Or silver. Do you know what the going rate for tin is these days?" [It’s almost $8 a pound.] Now, that won’t get you a wild adventure in Paris, mind you, but you can have a high-flying time at Disney World with a price like that – place extra ordinaire for good times and all things magical. Now that I think of it, I think I like that idea. When you look at me, think: she’s a magical trip just waiting to happen! ;-)
Dr. Pam. Seriously, she makes me feel better about myself. As my father would say, she makes me believe that I’m in pretty darn good shape for the shape I’m in! You hold onto what sounds good. Right? I do. I hold onto this thought: Dr. Pam is a BIG blessing in my life!
As I continue to count my blessings, my grandparents come to mind. I had the best grandparents of any kid in the world! That’s MY story anyway, and I’m sticking to it! They were funny, and the endearing thing is that they didn’t always know that they were funny. They were honest and caring. I felt REALLY loved when I was with them. They were unique and original. As previously written, they taught me a lot about life and what’s important. They were important to me. You know someone truly mattered in your life when they are alive, well and constant in your heart. My heart is full with the love and gratitude I feel for having been given the gift of my grandparents. The best....they were, quite simply the best grandparents. Thanksgiving was always a special time for us. Their visits brought many joyful moments to my childhood. I sing high praise for them today.
Jeff. Big brother. If you’ve not read my blog entry about him [He Ain’t Heavy, He’s my Brother], I’ll try and condense it down for you. He’s a character. He was when we were young. He’s every bit one as we’ve grown older. We didn’t like each other very much when we were young. It was that older-younger sibling dynamic at work. He was my irritant; I was his pain. There were six years that spanned our ages, and we had little in common back then except our last name. But, I always remembered something my aunt once said: "you two are like peas and carrots [she said this about me and my sister too]. You’re both sweet in your own ways, and you have no clue how much you compliment each other!" As I’ve gotten older, I’ve begun to realize just that fact: we compliment each other in unique ways. He has become a friend, not just my brother. I am his white sheep of our family, and I’d don’t mind, so much, that classification any more. His comment means that he holds me in esteemed light, and that’s always a good thing. He’s one of the first people I’d call if I found myself in trouble and needing help. It’s not a statement I make about many people.
Pamela Lynn. My sister. Pam is the person who taught me at a very early age about sharing and boundaries. When you share a room with your sister, you must learn the importance of those two things. Fortunately for me, I did. She’s another one who I didn’t become close with until I got older. It often happens when you, meaning me, are the square, studious one amidst a family that had a cool eldest son and a cool eldest daughter. Let me just say this: I’ve never considered myself square. I’m more the short, round type but I’ll grant that I was studious as a kid. Still, short, round and studious people know how to have fun. I’ll never forget when Pam said to me once when we were in our 20's, "if I’d known you were this much fun when we were kids, I’d have paid more attention to you!" Trust me, through the years, we’ve made up for lost time. Like my brother, she teaches me things. She is a grace note, even if she’s never completely believed that about herself. I’ve learned about compassion from her and resilience. I bought her a book once, for her birthday, called Sisters. It was a compilation of essays about famous women and their sisters coupled with a photograph. The last page of the book was blank. It seemed an odd ending to a otherwise fantastic book. It screamed to be filled. I took it upon myself to complete it. On the last page, I put a picture of my sister and me, and wrote my own essay about our sisterhood. I put a quote at the top, which she found funny and was true. It said, "you can tell your sister off in four languages, but if you ever need to borrow a quarter, she’ll lend you a quarter..." Yeah. That’s about right...no matter what, there’s always a quarter in my purse with her name on it.
Speaking of sisters. I was blessed with a second one though we don’t share a blood line. She came into my life when I married her brother. We didn’t start out as good friends. We evolved into that, and there’s many positive things to be said for personal evolution. It started out more like being in separate corners and assessing the other. Kathy was the baby sister and only sister in a family of four children, and I was the "intended" to a brother who she was very close to. It took us a few years to carve out our niche in each others lives, but she is a good friend now. I don’t think of her as an "in-law". I only see a sister when I look at her. She is also one I’d call first when in need because I know that she’d drive 500 miles to get to me if I was in need. She brought Elmer into our lives. For that alone, I can never repay her! As Martha Stewart would say, "it’s a good thing!"
Daddy. I have a few special Thanksgiving memories about my father. Some make me laugh more than others. One in particular involved him regaling the table about stories regarding his children. The "L" word figured prominently. It’s become a treasured memory – brings about MUCH hearty laughter.  The things he said at times and the way he said them...well, those who knew him know what I’m talking about. My father was a real character too. Did I say that about my brother?  Ah well.  It's true. The tree and his apple...lines blur between them sometimes.  Jeff said something to me the other day, and for a moment, I thought I heard my father speaking.  I hear a lot of my father in my brother’s voice now. Tone. Inflection. Things you take for granted when they’re present in your life. Once they leave, you’re left with the memory of their sound. Fortunately for me, I’ve got a good memory, and the sound of my father’s voice is still vivid and clear. I’ve been thinking about him a lot the last few days. I’ve had those come-and-go weepy moments that occur when a loved one has moved on, and we’d give anything just to hear "I love you too, Sug!" one more time...or see his face or feel his hug...to sit around the Thanksgiving tabe and break bread one more time. My father and I – as I grew older and more convicted in my own thoughts, didn’t always agree, but part of the person I am today is a result of his guidance and input. He helped to shape me – to pour the foundation that supports my beliefs and values. For the person I am today, part of the thanks goes to him for examples set and lessons taught, not all perfectly but every one tinged with his human*ness. Within his human*ness, there was grace. That was the blessing of my father. He, too, taught me many important things, namely a special verse of Amazing Grace.
Mother: One sweetest name of love’s refrain. She’s been with me the longest – I’ve been connected to her for more years than I’ve been connected to another living person. There is a profoundness to that thought. Our mothers are the only people with whom we share a true physical connection, where our bodies are literally inside theirs – attached to them. It is the nearest thing to earthly divinity. Man...when you’ve got a good mother that’s half of life’s battle right there. You’ve got a built-in advocate, cheerleader, therapist, advisor. If my mother were a candy bar, she’d be the $100,000 Dollar bar. Anyone remember that candy bar from the 70's? It’s Nestle’s chocolate with caramel and puffed rice – all the good stuff rolled up into one incredible sensation. That’s my mother.
Chuey and Elmer. The Princes of Virginia. Who knew that two little rascals could bring such jubilant chaos into our lives? They are my heart smiles and my love lights. I am the best thing since Wonder bread in their eyes. I believe that about myself where they’re concerned. What could be better than that? It is a glorious thing and a REAL ego booster for a little body to break out into a vigorous and uncontrollable shimy-shake of pure glee when you enter a room. I am 24 k. gold or .925 sterling silver in their books. They still hold me in that light on my "Tin Man" days. Tender mercies. I speak of them a lot. That is a big one right there, and it’s given to me by two dogs who have no clue than I’m physically less than what I was six years ago. All they know is that in the love department, mine is greater than anything they could ever have hoped to have found in this life. Kathy jokes that if there is such a thing as reincarnation, she hopes to come back as my dog. It makes me smile. If you don’t have a dog, and you can afford one, I highly recommend it. It is the best therapy you’ll ever pay for. The giggles are endless. The adoration is non-stop and the love is big. BIG love. That’s what you get when you’ve got puppies in your house; in your life; in your heart... Double thanks I give for them.
Tom. Last but certainly not least as I run through my list of blessings. He’s the man who took a mayonnaise jar and made an arrangement of fireflies that actually sparked when you turned a switch on at the lid. Can you imagine the delight in receiving a gift like that for a romantic like myself? I remember when I was in school, I read a poem by William Wordsworth called, Surprised by Joy, that spoke of a heart’s best treasure. He’s mine. He’s been making my heart go pitter-pat for 22 years. I don’t just love him. I like him. I remember once praying in gratitude and thanking God for giving me my true like-love. I don’t know how many of you believe in soul mates, but I do. It’s easy to believe in something that you’ve found–that you have. I know at this time of year, I’m especially thankful for the blessing of him and a good, strong, solid marriage. His hand is always there when I reach for it...sure and steady like my parents prayed I’d find. My mother is the one who told me, back when I first told her about him, that he sounded like a keeper. Yes. He’s a keeper. My father is the one who proudly boasted to friends, "he’s a helluva nice guy!" Yes. He’s that too.  Rich blessing, my Tom....I hope he knows it always...
Their are other blessings in my life: There’s Aunt Judy, Jackie, Ginny, Doris, Bonnie, Carolyn...so many more stories for so many other days. But, I remember them all on this one...
Thorton Wilder once said that "We can only be said to be alive in those moments when our hearts are conscious of our treasures." Today, more than any other day of the year, I’m acutely aware that my heart is a treasure chest that is abundantly overflowing with blessings. Today, I am ALIVE, and I give thanks for each and every one...

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

It Was Fascination






Luke & Laura: 30 Years Later

Many pop culture questions stand out in our minds. Some have to do with real events and others have to do with fictitious ones. I daresay that everyone who was old enough to understand the English language, remembers the catch phrase: "Where were you when Luke and Laura got married?" [Just like "Where were you when JR was shot?.. or...President Kennedy, President Reagan and John Lennon." "Do you remember what you were doing when you heard that Princess Diana had died or Michael Jackson?] Real and fictitious MONUMENTAL moments in history - pop or otherwise always seem to stick out in our minds.
Well, it was 30 years ago today that 30 million people sat glue and transfixed in front of their television sets and watched the wedding of the century. [Yes, I believe it rivaled Prince Charles and Princess Diana’s wedding four months earlier....or came pretty darn close] Likewise, you have to remember, this was at a time that VCR’s weren’t prevalent in everyone’s homes, and the internet didn’t exist.
When it’s reported that 30 million people watched the wedding between Luke and Laura, it REALLY means that time stood still for that hour on November 16, 1981, so that people could tune in and see the culmination of a two-year dance: fans waiting for Luke and Laura to bring down crime boss mafioso, Frank Smith, then go off and save the world from the evil Cassadines so that four months later they could finally have some time to themselves, and we, the fans, could finally grasp the brass ring! It was an unbelievably heady time. Crazy? Yes. Momentous? Yes. Insanely good? Oh...hell yeah! It was insanely good!!!!! Silly to some? Probably. But, it was what it was and it was magically, riveting television.
I was in my Freshman year of college. To tell you how significant this shindig between Lucas Lorenzo Spencer and Laura Webber Baldwin was, even our college professors knew they would be sitting in an empty classroom for those two magical days. So, our assignments were handed out prior to the big day with a call to "have fun & see you Monday".... The Professors who indulged their students in that moment were forever considered "cool" from there on out...
A couple hundred of us piled into a small auditorium and watched the wedding on a 32" tv which was the largest we could find at the time. I remember someone dragging it in from somewhere though no one knew where it came from. We didn’t care! We considered it the "something borrowed" element of the day.
It was magic - pure magic. We crammed in so tightly that I’d venture to say sardines in a can had more wiggly room than we did, but it didn’t matter. The camaraderie was like being in a tight space rooting for the home team at a football game, and Luke and Laura’s wedding was the Super bowl of daytime television. I remember thinking with all the hoopla not just among the fans but with the media as well that this was going to be a memory - a long-lasting one. I wasn’t wrong about that! [Thirty years later and the fans still remember.] Elizabeth Taylor didn’t make an appearance for "just anybody" Dahling! She adored Luke and Laura like the rest of us. If it was good enough for Dame Elizabeth.....Yet, even without that added bonus of a big name dropping in as part of the festivities, it was truly something special simply in and of itself. It was the stuff of well....legends. Genie Francis and Tony Geary certainly sealed their iconic status with that wedding...they became TRUE legends that day, and their fans have never forgotten it. It’s like sports fans recalling with awed fascination when The Dodgers won the World Series; when Ali won the Heavyweight Championship or when The Saints won the Super bowl. The Wedding of Luke and Laura was our world series; heavyweight championship and super bowl Sunday all rolled up into one glorious thing. It was the Motherlode of fictional television events. I don’t know whether we’ll have the opportunity to see them again, in the sunset ending that we’ve all hoped and dreamed for them and ourselves, but we hold it in our minds - the happy place. And, for a moment, for one GREAT, shining moment, they were magic, and they shared it with the rest of us as well.
I’ve attached a poem that I wrote a few years ago about Luke and Laura and attached a few of my favorite music videos along with it. Today, like then, I know the ardent fans will be celebrating again like it’s 1981....and why not? It was a heady time in our lives that few things compared to. It’s nice to brush off, at times, the cobwebs of certain memories and celebrate them again - those halcyon days.
It’s also a perfect opportunity to once again say to Ms. Francis and Mr. Geary: Thank you for the ride! It was wild and crazy and fun. It was true roller coaster! You gave us the time of our lives in a story that was brilliant and bodacious and beautiful! There was nothing any better than what you created from the Wyndam’s dance on down to The Triple L, and that last, heartfelt, long-awaited gazebo dance. We are indebted and we are grateful for the legacy – The unrevised version of that great love affair.
Happy 30th Anniversary, Luke & Laura!  It was fascination then, and it's fascination now - ...still...always...Fascination...


http://youtu.be/LTYQAAManpc Luke & Laura~Fascination video
http://youtu.be/mcy4nzg5dk8 Labk's Incredible video: Every Time I Look at You by Il Divo

Blue Lights in MY Basement

Background to the title of this blog entry:

Years ago when my husband and I lived in Maryland, we listened, on Saturday afternoon/early evenings [4-7 pm on WPFW/89.3 FM] to an addictive show of Andrea Bray's called "Blue Lights in the Basement".  Andrea's show is an eclectic mix of oldies but goodies, great, rhythm & blues, soulful jazz classics.  Her soothing, sultry voice encouraged us to sit back.  Relax.  Enjoy, as we dusted off the cobwebs of some long-ago gems and fondly took a look back and a listen to.  Since then, I've affectionately adopted the sentiment, "Blue Lights in the Basement" to include old movies, t.v. shows, or great works of literature.  Which leads me to this blog post:
I wrote this piece three years ago when a band of Genie Francis' supporters created a group called "Genie's Angels" to fight to get her back on General Hospital. It was a successful campaign and one that Genie has appreciatively acknowledged.  With the recent cancellation of two beloved soaps, and the looming threat of losing a genre that has been a part of my life since I was old enough to recall memories, [hm hm years ago] a friend recently asked if the LnL fans, that's Luke and Laura, for those of you not in the know, could say something nice about them.  I reached back into my files and decided to dust this off.  It's the nicest thing I can say about a couple, who, in my mind, will go down in history as one of the greatest romantic duos ever created.  I will never be able to thank Genie Francis & Tony Geary enough for the many years of entertainment and joy that they have brought me.  But, this is a start...  Sit back. Relax. Enjoy!
An Epical Ode to Luke and Laura & a Love Never Forgotten

©Jhill Perran
August 10, 2008
For me, it began as a slow, simmered "Rise",
while the story unfolded through those incredible eyes.
The anguish, the longing, the heat of their stares,
kept me fanning myself, on the edge of my chair.
There was intrigue and mystery and passion that oozed -
between two, star-crossed lovers who were torn and confused.
And, we saw in the glimpse of that one, awful night,
how one man’s human foible made him a strange kind of Knight.
Luke’s remorse and despair cut to the depths of our soul,
and redemption began from the trust that he stole.
Yes, we rooted for him, and we rooted for her.
It was them who we hoped had a committed re-birth.
Because they suffered and struggled over their formidable love.
It was hard-fought and hard-won - but it fit like a glove.
We could not get enough of their angst-filled, raw, passion,
They were genuinely flawed, yet it was poignantly rationed.
Their story, as told, showed a unique kind of grace.
Luke found his absolution from an unlikely place.
The woman who received his most brutal attack,
found forgiveness within, and she offered it back.
In that moment, we couldn’t have cared for them more,
It was them who we cheered for! It was them we adored!
And that glorious summer, when they went on the run,
when they brought down the mob, without the use of a gun.....
Who’d have thought that one story could bring such fun-filled, pure joy-
than the one that was told through the Left-Handed Boy?
It was short-lived! We knew when that cigar band came off,
We were in for LONG days, but we were in for the haul....
We bore witness to some of the most powerful scenes
of a love that was spoken through the lines in between....
The unuttered words and their subtle nuance,
clearly showed their desire - the profoundness of want.
How is it that two people could make love without touch?
It was all in their eyes, and their eyes said so much....
We felt tingles and shivers and were giddy each minute,
in the way that they told it and how well they did spin it....
And the heat was turned up during summer number two,
diamonds, a yacht - a tropical island to boot.
There in their glory was Luke and his gal,
and his good-looking, sexy, Australian pal.
Yowzah, we thought! Who could ask for much more?
There was a starlet, a "mad" guy and bad guys galore!
Port Charles in the deep freeze, in August no less....
What a yarn that was spun with that name "Ice Princess"...
In the fall, finally! Finally! we all got the dream!
Luke and Laura united with the exchange of a ring....
Like Camelot, the magic was gone much too quick,
Something precious was lost in that cold, foggy, thick...
Oh, I cried when our Laura disappeared in the night,
And, for me, that’s when GH lost its most luminous light.
Luke without Laura? - Too painful to watch it back then,
But I watched in ‘83 when our ship sailed again....
I was there holding on......and holding my breath,
when they finally connected in that earth-moving caress...
In his arms, Laura jumped as Luke screamed out to God,
it was a path only made for Angels and Heroes to trod.
It was splendor and wonder and grace personified,
when those two saw each other, when they embraced and they cried.
One knew in that moment, that fairy tales do come true,
If you believe in such things, and I assure you I do!
It was magic, I tell you - seeing that miracle unfold,
Watching Laura and Luke spinning more tales of pure gold.
True love, it endures. It survives. It abides...
You saw it so clearly when you looked in their eyes.
Nothing and no one would keep them a part!
You can sever one’s ties but you can’t sever their heart!
And therein and throughout, lies the crux of it all,
One heart shared by two lovers can’t be arbitrarily recalled...
No one could keep Laura on an isle with a cool, hunk of steel,
No one would stop Luke from protecting his Angel from evil.
Thus, commenced an odyssey of adventure and fun,
Luke and Laura were together - happily, back on the run...
And the following year, we got the Aztec Adventure,
With that most special scene: the telling of a new, baby Spencer.
Then, they left us to go live their lives off the screen,
but we knew they’d return.....can you say "Halloween, 93"...
Oh, Happy Days! Happy Days! Happy Days, don’t you know!
Luke and Laura were back with their Lucky in tow.
What followed can only be summed up like this:
It was JUST as it was when we last saw them kiss!
The magic still sparked, in the whirl of their dance.
Down the Triple L aisle, and the heat of their glance,
and the way that they touched and the way that they moved,
Made our hearts pitter-pat as we swayed with their groove.
We giggled over hijinx, watched sorrow amidst happier times.
The birth of sweet, Lulu and news of a son: Cassadine.
There were struggles, separations, and severe growing pains,
Yet, through all of those lessons, it reinforced their one, great strength:
Love. Always love. It was love from the start.
Every obstacle faced couldn’t tear them apart.
Yet, the unthinkable happened - papers signed for divorce,
No! No! No! No! No! No! That’s not REALLY their choice!
"Why DID we get divorced?" Tony asked Genie one day.
She replied with regret, "Cuz they wrote it that way!"
Then, we watched them discover what WE knew all along,
It was there with each other where they truly belonged.
They must marry again. It was destiny’s fate!
Luke and his Laura would forever be bound as soul mates.
But, the other shoe dropped, and it blew all apart,
not only our story but these two lover’s heart.
It was disbelief, horror and I gasped "Holy crud!"
When that candlestick hit Rick, then fell with a thud.
What happened in that attic isn’t really that clear,
all I know, was I knew it was my worst kind of fear....
Genie leaving? Laura crazy? Please say it ain’t so!
It felt helpless and hopeless - it was the worst kind of low!
The one thing I felt was how unbelievably wrong,
it was to hush the splendor of their incredible song.
We love her! He needs her! Don’t take her away!
Luke’s humanity. His Angel. PLEASE! God! Let her stay!
Yet, it wasn’t to be and we all watched just how,
These two said their goodbyes in that sad, attic-vow.
Those vows, oh those vows....they serve to remind,
We were gifted with not one but TWO one-of-a-kinds!
When Luke lovingly said "just my Sweetheart and me,"
There was a crumble within and I went weak in the knees.
She was courageous! Outrageous! He said that’s what she’d need,
To throw in with a guy from the wrong-side of Elm Street.
Then, he marveled again at her beauty and grace,
as he vowed his true love, as tears streamed down his face.
I remember that look, when she looked in his eyes,
and she cried in her truth: it’s there she felt safest inside.
Laura told him with knowing, with a sincere, true-love grit,
that he lived in her heart....right in the center of it.
Then, she broke from her hero as he fought not to weep,
he lost all that had mattered. Had Luke sown what he reaped?
Had the chickens come home to finally roost on past sins?
That’s the seed that took hold of his demons within.
In the past, she had seemingly taken each hit,
for the payback that had Luke Spencer’s name written on it.
There was Mikkos, Stavros, Nikolas too,
Laura suffered because Helena sought to punish her Luke.
And if that weren’t enough, we mustn’t forget,
What it cost her because Luke chose her over Jennifer Smith.
As I went into mourning because Laura was gone,
still, my heart dared to hope she would, one day, come home.
And the memories of past times, when their love was in bloom,
kept me buoyed from the despair, disappointment and gloom.
In my mind, "Fascination" memories of a pink-feathered lift,
made my heart smile again, as I cherished the gift,
That Gloria Monty gave us, when she paired up these two,
and made history with daytime’s most-beloved, dynamic duo!
Years past, as we waited and prayed for a fix,
And the magic returned in the fall of ‘06.
Hallelujah and glory and Hallelujah again!
Laura’s back! She’s awake! From ear to ear spanned my grin.
It was wonder and heartfelt - nothing better than this,
when the name "Luke" was called out from those once-quieted lips.
And, we watched sheer relief as Luke turned in pure awe,
once again, gold was mined in the love that we saw,
as he knelt and he looked and he cried "is it you?"
And her hands traced his face as a small-smile broke through.
"Yes, it’s me!" she declared. She’d been there all along,
They could take her away but not silence their song!
It’s too powerful, this love - this story - this pair.
That’s evident! It’s been 30 years. 30! Years! Still, we care!!!
There was a moment - a happening, at Beecher’s Corner’s when they...
went to dance....it was a most sacred, revered interplay.
When her arm went around him and she buried her head,
there was so much unspoken yet so much clearly said.
When Luke held her and stroked her with such sweet tenderness,
It was Tony who assured Genie in that gentle, utterance:
"I know, Baby!"
It was all staring at me, but the lines clearly blurred.
For a moment, I wasn’t certain who it was I had heard?
I can tell you I saw much resolved in that embrace,
It was one more REAL moment of their beauty and grace.
Time had stood still. It had waited for them.
Four years disappeared; wiped away - a faint dim.
The story played out - in the span of mere weeks,
all the love and the longing and the wanting for keeps...
It’s a love story that’s been so much a part of the lives,
not just for the fans but those who breathed it to life.
Once again, we strapped in, for a wonderful ride,
that ended too soon - in the blink of an eye.
What’s the matter with those who are running this show?
Can’t THEY see when they’re holding an ace-in–the-hole?
It boggles the mind that we lost Genie again,
Especially when Tony declared HE wanted his friend,
to return to her home where they had more gold to mine,
but it fell on deaf ears. All requests were denied.
It was too much to bear, being deprived of what’s golden,
How was it that ABC didn’t feel the least bit beholden -
To these actors and their fans who once saved this show from ruin,
from a cancellation stamp when rating-troubles were brewing?
Could they have truly forgotten who put GH on the map?
It was raised up by an unsuspecting Angel and her unlikely Chap!
We still loved them and missed them and wanted them back,
it was humanity and grace that our show sorely lacked.
Thus began an uprising: "Genie’s Angels" campaign,
We weren’t taking this lying! It was clearly insane!
When a show’s lost it’s heart, it’s goodness and luster,
Is change-in-direction really THAT hard to muster?
It appeared so, but we demanded OUR voices be heard,
They could solve so many problems if they’d just bring back our girl!
Clean up the mob-violence - write it again as sub-text,
Get rid of the dead weight! That’s the thing to do next!
Give us love, and joy and some stories with passion:
Luke and Laura, family values, how bout hospital interaction?
That’s what we’ve longed for, prayed for, yet when hope seemed MOST lost,
that she was not coming back, no matter how much the cost...
Something magical happened....in the kindliest knack,
Someone heard us! Praise be! "Mama" Laura is back...
It may be a brief moment with regard to this stint...
But within it, there’s hope that’s much more than a glint.
There’s a story - a sunset - that sets NOT solely on him!
Every road, we all know, leads us right back to them.
LukeandLaura: it’s one idea, one love and one tale.
For the die-hards, this love story is OUR Holy Grail!
We won’t rest til the ending matches up with the truth,
with the narration that was told in the days of our youth.
See, some of us believe fairy tales can come true.
For the fans, there’s one ending: it’s Laura with Luke....

The song that started it all: Rise/Herb Alpert http://youtu.be/ennMD1fPtXA
Genie & Tony dance to Fascination/2006   http://youtu.be/3bUwiEvRaRw  http://youtu.be/SduZbULyu1I The Promise/LnL video by Hypno
 http://youtu.be/AThYV3_Or04  Laura's Incredible Video: The Story of my Life